Finding your own meaning in a scent.
A scent is never just a scent.
It means something different to us all, a feeling, a memory, a moment & sometimes before we even realise it. What smells calming to one person may trigger an emotional memory to another, it can even differ day to day.
This is because the meaning behind a scent isn’t set in stone. It’s v personal.
There is no ‘right’ meaning.
We’re often told what certain scents mean, for example, Citrus is meant to be uplifting, Lavender is relaxing, Vanilla is warming.
But real life isn’t that simple.
Lavender might remind you of a past loved ones garden from your childhood., who you miss dearly.
Citrus might take you back to the school dinner hall that you dreaded going into.
Vanilla might take you back to childhood kitchens & the smell of baking.
Your own memories, experiences & emotions are what truly makes a scent mean something to you. This is such a wonderful thing & one you can explore yourself when you’re next choosing a candle or melt.
Scents mean what we want them to, or what we need at that time.
Sometimes we need something out of a certain scent , when we’re choosing it , to help enhance our life at that moment in time, or work alongside us to help.
A scent can be:
A moment to breathe
A moment of calm
A feeling of home
A chance to meditate
A time to remember
A moment of relaxation
But this can change at a flicker of a candles flame, a scent that once felt heavy may suddenly feel healing, one that felt uplifting may begin to feel soothing.
A gentle ritual
For me lighting a candle or wax melt is part of my meditation, now I’m not sitting down with my legs crossed in-front of me, I mean , I’m taking my time, placing it where I need it that day, where I can breathe it in & enjoy my chosen scent & what it means to me on that day.
The next time you light a candle or wax melt, try this:
Pause for a moment.
Take a slow breath in.
Think why have you chosen this scent, what is it you need today.
Then just ENJOY!
A final thought.
This is why I love what I do so much, scent is so personal , it’s the perfect way to express how you’re feeling at any certain time & what you need from it.
At Mands Melts, each scent is an invitation - not to feel a certain way , but to feel your way. Let it mean whatever you need it to mean, today.
Mand x
